“三人行必有我师”你懂的

~ 出门工作是奋斗，回家带娃是责任，不管什么人什么事都不能影响这条规则的执行。一般周末在家，饭后我们父子三人都会下楼走走。左手牵着儿子右手拉着女儿，一起聊聊天也是做父亲的职责。早想过了，现在的小朋友平时接收的信息也是非常广泛的，作为家长自我感觉也不太适宜命令式的管教。反而用平等的沟通聊天方式，更能增进彼此的感情。聊天中儿子说到他们班学生都非常熟悉抖音，有的甚至都有自己的抖音号了。听着确实有些吃惊，同事中还有不会用微信开会的，但是小学生都会做抖音自媒体了。还有三岁的小女儿，跟我说她要学画画、学跳舞。主动学习是好事情，我们夫妻俩可从来没有诱导过小孩要学这个那个，小孩自己平时看看电视、听听其他小朋友说就开始会思考和选择了。就像这样聊天，聊着聊着孩子们就教会我如何做父母，如何理解他们的需求，然后正确地引导和满足。

不论年龄大小，在一起相互交流就有收获，真的应了那句“三人行必有我师”。论语“三人行，必有我师焉；择其善者而从之，其不善者而改之。”意思是：“别人的言行举止，必定有值得我学习的地方。选择别人好的学习，看到别人缺点，反省自身有没有同样的缺点，如果有，加以改正。”如果用品质的观点来理解就是：接收-比对-分析-改进。接收的内容包括我们看到的外在形象和行为、听到的话语、闻到的体香、以及感受到的情绪。然后，用已知的规则比对接收的信息。接着再分析所接收的信息是正向的还是需要改进的。如果是正向的，我们就接受并学习。如果是需要改进的，那我们也要反省自己是否有同样缺点。这就是用品质的观点解读的论语。

“三人行，必有我师焉”，仔细看一下这句话中最值得我们思索的是“师”字，其他的字其实都比较好理解。而这个“师”至少有两种解释，常规的是名词老师的意思，也可以作为动词学习的意思。再看看对这句话最常见的翻译是“几个人在一起行走，其中必定有可作为我的老师的人”，从译文中不难理解大家把“师”是理解为名词老师。我更偏向动词学习的意思，因为名词老师主要是对同行人的尊重和自己的谦虚，但是作为动词呢更加侧重的是自己的行动和提升。我们现在所处的 社会 信息非常发达，成长的瓶颈不在于没有老师，而在于没有行动。与时俱进，我们理解“三人行，必有我师焉”可以更多强调在自我的反省与改进行动上。

所以，再回头看看我与孩子们的聊天就知道了，孩子们教我如何做父母，我要用行动成就孩子们正向的兴趣爱好；孩子们教我如何工作，在工作中也可以营造一些环境引导员工自己做选择，好过命令员工完成任务。

质量就在我们身边，“三人行，必有我师焉”，现在懂了想要把事情做好，有一个方法就是坚守自己的职责，多与相关方接触，事情本身会引导我们如何行动才能达成目标。

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Going out to work is a struggle, going home to have a baby is responsibility, no matter who or what affects the implementation of this rule.The three of us like to go downstairs after dinner on weekends. I took my son in my left hand and my daughter in my right.Talk to them and take my responsibility as a father. Nowadays, children receive a wide range of information at ordinary times. As parents, I feel that it's not suitable for mandatory discipline.Instead, I can use equal ways of communication and chat to increase the closer feelings to each other.My son said that all the students in his class are very familiar with Douyin. Some even have their own Douyin account. I was indeed a little surprised by this. Many of my colleagues don't know how to use WeChat for meetings.But now primary school students can do Douyin we media.B esides, my three-year-old daughter told me she wanted to learn to draw and dance. Active learning is a good thing. My husband and I have never induced our children to take interest classes.Usually after watching TV and listening to other children, she began to think and choose. Talking like this, my kids taught me how to be a nice parent, how to understand their needs, and then guide and fulfill them correctly.

Regardless of age, there are benefits to being together and communicating with each other."There must be something I can learn from other people's behavior. Choose others' merits to learn, see their shortcomings, reflect to avoid the same shortcomings.If I have a similar fault, I will correct it. If I understand it from a qualitative point of view, it is reception-comparison-analysis-improvement. The received content includes the images and behaviors we see, the words we hear, the smells we smell, and the emotions we feel. Then we need to analyze whether the information received is positive or needs to be improved. If it is positive, we should accept and learn. If it needs to be improved, we should also reflect on whether we have the same shortcomings. This is the pragmatic interpretation of the Analects of Confucius.

"In the company of three people, there must be something I can learn". The most common translation of this sentence is "If several people walk together, there must be someone who can be my teacher", or "if several people walk together, there must be something I learn". I prefer the meaning of verb learning, because the noun teacher is mainly to respect fellow students and show their own modesty. But the verb focuses more on its own action and ascension. We are now living in a highly developed social information, and the bottleneck of growth is not the lack of teachers, but the lack of action. Keeping pace with The Times, so we can understand that this sentence can be more emphasized on self-reflection and improvement actions.

Therefore, my children teach me how to be a parent, and I want to use action to achieve children's positive interests and hobbies; My kids taught me how to work, and it was better to create an environment at work that guided employees to make their own choices than to command them to complete tasks.

Quality is all around us."In the company of three, there must be my teacher". If we want to get things done, one way is to stick to your responsibilities and engage with relevant parties. Events themselves guide how we act to achieve our goals.

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