关于 现在父母和孩子之间缺少理解 的英语作文120字以上

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how to deal with the relationship with children
A good parent-children relationship should be set up on the basis mutual understanding and respect.Parents can not impose their ideas on their children.They should treat their children as independent individual.It is advisable for the parents to learn to listen to children's ideas and encourage them to think on their own rather than decide everything for the children.On the other hand,children should listen to their parents' advice for they're more experienced.Try to be understanding when there is disagreement with parents.Always keep one thing in min---whatever they do comes from their love for us.It is necessary children to exchange ideas with parents from time to time so that the gap between parents and children will be narrowed.

Heart-to-Heart Talks with Parents
As is shown in the bar chart，children spend less time having heart-to-heart talks with their parents when they grow older. For example, while the 7-9 age group spends as many as 6 hours per week on average, the 16-18 age group spends only half the time.
　 There are two major reasons for this: both parents and children are too busy working or studying, and there aren’t many topics of common interest for them to talk about.
　 In my opinion, children should let their parents know more about what they are interested in. At the same time, parents should spend more time talking with their children and sharing opinions with them. Only in this way can they better understand each other.

The problem of spoiling children has been common these days. With the development of economy and technology, the quality of life has become better and better. As a result, children today are experiencing more and more enjoyment. Their parents will give me unlimited allowance to satisfy them so as to encourage their children to study harder. Consequently. children are turning in to "little princesses" and "little princes" in today's society. This is definitely not the outcome we would love to see. Since children are going to be the future of our society, it is important to train them to develop a sense of independence as well as responsiblity rather than laziness. Parents should realize the seriousness of this problem soon and start to take actions to rescue their children. Otherwise, our society will eventually move towards a direction that everyone doesn't want to face.

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昌都地区19181171640： 孩子与父母缺少理解,分析造成现状的原因,谈谈你的观点,英语作文 - ？
宫娣首舒：[答案] ­当今社会,很多家庭都只有一个小孩,很多父母都过于宠爱子女.请根据以下提示要点,谈谈你对此现象的看法.(80个词左右)要点:1.现在很多学生都是独生子女,由于父母的溺爱,一些人变的自私,只考虑 到自己.2.与同学...

昌都地区19181171640： 为什么现在父母与孩子不能互相理解?？
宫娣首舒： 时间在变 人也在变 , 大人们所经历的是他那个年代的学生时代 ,是永远不会理解现在的学生时代 . 就像 50年代 一样 谁干想 现在的电脑普及率?都认为不可能 等等 .所以大人们不会真正的理解,再加上现代人 的虚伪 自大 家长们 觉得自己活的长 就比 现在的孩子牛 ,所以 搞成 很难沟通

昌都地区19181171640： 为什么父母总是不理解我们啊. - ？
宫娣首舒： 和父母缺少沟通,还有就是有的孩子自以为长大了,但是他们的想法有时很天真很幼稚,有些家长会不屑一顾,或者认为孩子的想法根本就是错的,这就使得父母孩子之间缺乏理解,缺乏信任.解决这一问题的最好方法就是父母孩子之间能够相互像朋友一样互吐心声,相互了解,相互信任,或者站在对方的角度思考问题,这样就容易互相理解了.

昌都地区19181171640： 为什么现在的家长总是不理解自己的孩子呢??？
宫娣首舒： 因为随着时间的过去,父母的思想始终处于旧时代,跟不上新时代的发展,导致父母与孩子之间产生代沟,所以应多与父母沟通

昌都地区19181171640： 父母真的是为孩子好,但为什么相互之间会不理解双方呢？
宫娣首舒： 其实,并不仅仅是缺乏沟通, 孩子与父母之间真的天生存在着代沟 而且无法逾越 所以,一定要设身处地的想想孩子的想法 作为孩子 自然要更多的对父母说出自己心中的想法 父母要注意不要太过铭感 尤其是对于一些敏感话题

昌都地区19181171640： 家长为什么老不理解孩子？
宫娣首舒： 这是家长和孩子缺乏沟通的主要表现,这样就导致了父母与孩子之间缺乏信任和了解!

昌都地区19181171640： 为什么有太多的父母不理解自己的子女?？
宫娣首舒： 父母和孩子之间也许会有代沟,这不是最主要的.重要的是父母和孩子之间要经常沟通,要让孩子感觉你和他是朋友关系,偶尔的抱抱他,会增加父母和子女的感情.一味地批评,指责,会让他有想逃避你的感觉,就会出现老鼠见猫的后果.

昌都地区19181171640： 为什么现在的大人不理解我们?？
宫娣首舒： 大人都希望孩子可以成龙成凤,他们一方面是想自己脸上有光彩,但是更重要的是希望孩子以后过的好.孩子认为父母不理解孩子,父母认为孩子不理解自己的苦心.只要将心比心就好了.

昌都地区19181171640： 现在的父母不懂孩子,孩子也不理解父母,是个问题啊? - ？
宫娣首舒： 因为是血肉相连的亲人.所以许多话反而就成为禁忌.交流是羞耻,亲近是羞耻.唯有通过相互苛求和中伤来表达对彼此的爱,才是理所当然.这是多么可悲的事实 .孩子小的时候是叛逆,父母毫无办法.等他长大成人想亲近,又没有机会了.只有孩子和父母真正的交心.才能让家庭和睦如初.至于怎么交心就要因人而异.

昌都地区19181171640： 当代青少年与父母之间存在明显的沟通障碍,你认为造成这种沟通障碍的原因是什么呢? - ？
宫娣首舒： 1,信息传播的现代化,孩子比父母更加适应现代社会,令父母丧失了部分权威.2,年轻人观念的嬗变,孝道思想被抛弃,加剧父母地位的动摇.3,父母与青少年之间的价值观产生背离,互相不认同对方的观念和想法,造成代沟.4,社会环境的影响.